Seeing a positive pregnancy test when you’re still in high school can feel like your entire world just stopped. Your mind is likely racing with a million questions: What will my parents say? What about school? What about my future? It’s a moment that can feel incredibly lonely and overwhelming.
If you’re reading this, please take a deep breath. You are not alone, and this is not the end of your story. At New Hope, we are here to be your safe, confidential first step. We can help you navigate these questions with facts and support, not pressure.
First: Get the Medical Facts
Before you can make any decisions, you need clear, medical information about your pregnancy. An at-home test is a good start, but it’s not the full picture.
Your first step should be to confirm your pregnancy with a lab-quality test and then get an ultrasound. We offer both of these as free services. An ultrasound is crucial because it answers three key questions:
- Is the pregnancy viable? An ultrasound can detect a heartbeat and confirm the pregnancy is progressing.
- How far along are you? The gestational age of the pregnancy will affect your options.
- Is the pregnancy in your uterus? This rules out an ectopic pregnancy, which is a medical emergency that requires immediate attention.
This information is the starting point for everything else. You need these facts to protect your health and understand your options.
What About School? Know Your Rights
One of the biggest fears for students is, “Will I have to drop out?” The answer is no. You are protected by a federal law called Title IX.
This law means that your school cannot discriminate against you for being pregnant. According to the U.S. Department of Education, your school:
- Cannot kick you out or force you into a separate program.
- Must excuse your absences for medical reasons (like doctor’s appointments, childbirth, and recovery) and allow you to make up the work.
- Should provide reasonable accommodations, just as they would for any other student with a temporary medical condition. This could mean a more comfortable desk, more frequent bathroom breaks, or elevator access.
You have the right to continue your education. A great first step is to talk to a school counselor, nurse, or a trusted teacher about how to set up these accommodations.
Telling Your Parents
This is often the conversation teens fear the most. There’s no easy way to do it, but approaching it with thought can help.
- Try to find a calm moment when you can talk privately without being rushed.
- Be direct and honest. It’s often best to state the facts simply: “I’m pregnant, and I need your help.”
- Be prepared for their reaction. They might be shocked, scared, or angry at first. Remember, their emotions often come from a place of fear and love for you. Give them time to process.
- You don’t have to do it alone. If you’re nervous, you can “practice” the conversation with one of our client advocates first. We’re here to listen and help you figure out what to say.
You Have Time to Make a Decision
Once you have the facts from your ultrasound and you’ve started the conversation with your parents, you may feel pressured to make a decision immediately. Remember: this is your decision. You have the right to explore all your pregnancy options without being rushed.
At our center, we provide a confidential space to learn about parenting, adoption, and abortion. Our team will provide accurate information and a listening ear, so you can make the choice that you feel is best for your future.
Wrapping Up
Being pregnant in high school is a major challenge, but it is not the end of your future. You are strong, you have rights, and you have support. Your first step is to get the medical facts. Your next step is to build a support system. We can be that first support for you.
You don’t have to face this alone. Contact us or schedule your free, confidential appointment with us today. We’re located right here in Cleveland, TN, and we’re ready to help you navigate what’s next.